Saturday, September 8, 2007
She Hates Her Dad
I had a personal talk with Bark Bark. She hated her dad for, in my opinion, the most minor of things. She hated him for arranging tuition and swimming lessons. She hated him for not giving her enough allowance. On the other hand, her mother gave her personal tuition and big allowances. I told her that she should not hate her dad for such minor things. But she would not listen. She insisted that she will be happier staying with her mum. Oh my God. Her mum Sparrow slept around with rich people who could financially support her material indulgence. She made up stories about people who
antagonised with her, especially our family. She would use all ruthless means to get what she wanted. I told my brother we should use wits to let her play own game. Let Bark Bark stay with Sparrow. Firstly, since Sparrow is behaving like a dog, biting hard at the bait and refusing to let go, we will surprise her by letting go. Burden her with the two children. Distract her from us. Secondly, given Sparrow's nature, she will reveal her true nature to Bark Bark, who will regret her decision and returns to her father's side. Even if Bark Bark chooses to continue staying with Sparrow, at least she can live with my nephew Josh. They can take care of each other. Fourthly, my brother can free himself from the evil clutches of Sparrow and start afresh with his new girlfriend. Once Josh reached 21 years old, I will give them an objective point of view of the whole picture and let them discern for themselves what is right and what is wrong.
Posted by Benjamin at 2:27 PM